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During
a separation or divorce there are many emotions inside your head
and heart -- confusion, anger sadness, and fear to name a few. The
Diocese of Cheyenne recognizes the difficult nature of life at this
time and extends ministry to the separated, divorced or widowed
through the Marriage, Family and Respect Life Ministry's Office.
Some of
the methods of support through the Church and community are listed
below.
Retrouvaille
of the Rockies -- a program for couples with troubled marriages,
including separated or divorced couples, who are willing to make
an honest effort to enter a process designed for resolution of conflict.
The program is designed to help heal and renew troubled marriages
in rediscovering one another through frank and open dialogue. For
information call Marriage, Family and Respect Life Ministry 1-800-788-4616
or (307-237-2723) or visit the website for Retrouvaille
www.retrouvaille.org.
North
American Conference of Separated and Divorced Catholics -- an
organization responsible for creating a network of support for families
experiencing separation and divorce. By means of conferences, member
groups, leadership training, resources and liaisons with church and
civic organizations, NACSDC has substantially improved the entire
family's experience of divorce by addressing the religious, emotional,
financial and parenting issues relative to separation, divorce and
remarriage. NACSDC recognizes that separated and divorced people,
through their vulnerability, suffering, courage, faithfulness and
patient endurance bear witness to Christ and His redeeming grace
to the world. They are not mere recipients of the Church's compassion;
they are, as well ministers of that compassion. Write NACSDC at P.O.
Box 360, Richland, OR 97870, of visit them at www.eoni.com/~nacsdc
Beginning
Experience -- A weekend program for divorced, widowed and
permanently separated men and women. A Beginning Experience weekend
offers support and direction to help resolve the grief or anger,
which can follow the end of a marriage by divorce, separation
or death. The weekend can be a time for a real awakening, a re-evaluation,
a new beginning. Beginning Experience is a positive experience
of hope. Call LaVerne at 307-237-7333 or write P.O. Box 50794,
Casper, WY 82605-0794.
New
Beginnings -- an interdenominational local support group whose
purpose is to provide the opportunity
for individuals to work through the grief process of losing a
partner through separation, divorce, or death. New Beginnings
meets weekly on a year-round basis, working through a cycle of
topics every sixteen weeks. Participants are invited to attend
as often as they wish -- although experienced participants attest
to an accelerated healing process by frequent attendance. Call
LaVerne at 307-237-7333 or Jackie at 307-234-4368. The group meets
every Thursday at 7 PM in the lower level of St. Patrick's Church,
400 Country Club Rd., Casper.
Resources:
The following is
a list of books published for:
Divorced & Separated:
"Does Divorce Make People Happy? Findings from a Study of Unhappy Marriages" published
by Institute for American Values, 1841 Broadway, Suite 211, New York, New York
100023. Call 212-246-3942 or www.americanvalues.org.
Suggested Divorce
Prevention Reading List:
Bettic Youngs Bilicki and Masa Goetz, GETTING BACK TOGETHER (Holbrook,
MA: Bob Adams, Inc., 1990).
Gary Chapman, THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES (Chicago: Northfiels Publishing,
1995).
Michele Weiner Davis, DIVORCE BUSTING (New York: Summit Books, 1992).
Michele
Weiner Davis, THE DIVORCE REMEDY (New Your: Simon & Schuster,
2001).
James Dobson, LOVE MUST BE TOUGH (Dallas: Word Publishing, 1996).
William Doherty, TAKE BACK YOUR MARRIAGE (New York: Avon Books, 1997).
Kathleen Finley, BUILDING A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE: 11 ESSENTIAL SKILLS (Chicago,
Loyola Press, 2000).
**Gerald Foley, COURAGE TO LOVE WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE HURTS (South Bend:
Ave Maria Press, 1992).
Kathy Heskin, MARRIAGE; A SPIRITUAL JOURNEY (Mystic, CT: Twenty-Third
Publicatons, 2002).
Pat Love, THE TRUTH ABOUT LOVE (New York, Simon and Schuster, 2001).
Howard Markman, Scott Stanley, and Susan Blumberg, FIGHTING FOR YOUR
MARRIAGE (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass Publishers, 1994).
**Michael McManus, MARRIAGE SAVERS (Grand Rapids: Sondervan Publishing,
1993).
**Diane Nedved, THE CASE AGAINST DIVORCE (New York, Donald I Fine, Inc.,
1989).
John Posell, **THE SECRET OF STAYING IN LOVE (1974); **WHY AM I AFRAID
TO TELL YOU WHO I AM (1969); WHY AM I AFRAID TO LOVE (1967); **UNCONDITIONAL
LOVE (1978). Argus Communications Books
Sidney and Suzanne Simon, FORGIVENESS (New York: Warner Books, 1990).
Judith Wallerstein and Sandra Blakeslee, THE GOOD MARRIAGE (New York:
Warner Books, 1996).
**Wendy Wright, SACRED DWELLING (New York: Crossroad, 1989).
**Available
for check-out at the Media Center 1-800-788-4616 or 237-2723
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